Monday, July 31, 2006

I'm a bad friend

I am now currently being told that i am a bad friend. Why? Because when i am asked the same question i give the same solution no matter how many times i am asked.
When confronted with my friends dilemma i respond with the same attitude giving the same advice every time. (This problem has been ongoing for 3 years now).
My next charge is that after that i start saying i don't want to interfere and i have no advice for you.

Am i missing something here?

For the first 6 months
you: what color is that?
me: blue

For the second 6 months
you: what color is that?
me: blue

For the third 6 months
you: what color is that?
me: well to me it still looks pretty blue

For the fourth 6 months
you: what color is that?
me: well if i were to put myself in your shoes, which is very hard, and looked in that direction, i would see it as blue.

After 2 years
you: what color is that?
me: i still have the same answer from before, i don't know what to say really, maybe you should ask someone else, i don't want to interfere.

I don't get it, i don't see my mistake, and now i am stubborn too.
Am very frustrated.

10 comments:

FreudianSlip said...

What a predicament.
Did you try elaborating on why you think it's blue? (I’m assuming this isn't the actual argument)

N said...

Endlessly...

FreudianSlip said...
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FreudianSlip said...

Then you're not a bad friend...you shouldn't be expected to tailor your points of view to fit in with the likes and dislikes of your friends, or anybody for that matter.
Explain this to him/her using simple logic.

N said...

Thank you, i have been agonizing over this all day.

N said...

I read your deleted comment in the email notification. Lol, da7akteeny awy.

FreudianSlip said...

hehe ya salam? how did i fix it? akeed 3akeet!

N said...

2olty di kosa! aw 7aga kedda, Lol.

FreudianSlip said...

hehe yeah..hia kosa fe3lan! 7elwa 7ekayet email notification di:D

Maat said...

who's being stubborn?! well, u'r telling him/her ur true opinion, so that makes u a good friend. it'll just take him/her hella time to figure out that it is "blue"!